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「很多媽媽在經歷婚姻到最後的階段,都會寫信問我說擔心自己離婚後,沒有工作能力該怎麼辦?其實真的不是沒有能力,是你願不願意踏出去那一步而已。」Amanda直接了當,用自身經歷點醒正在感情中迷惘的女性,只要相信自己,你就能做到一切。
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花嫁:您會如何形容自己?
Amanda:隨和,有一點孤僻。
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享受Me Time,讓思緒回到自己身上
在訪談的一開始,Amanda看起來略帶緊張,還在摸索如何找出合適的語句來表達自己的想法,因此她想了想回答:「不認識的人看到我,可能會覺得我比較難親近,但我認為我的個性算是比較隨和,但有一點孤僻。」她表示,自己屬於天生臭臉的類型,所以即使心情沒有不好,只是面無表情的情況下便很容易被誤認為難相處。「除非跟對方比較熟一點,我才會展露自己私下的那一面。」Amanda補充,自己還是個急性子,而最近迷上騎單車的她,十分享受迎著陽光與微風,與自己對話的時間。
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花嫁:蘋果和西打的個性是否有遺傳到您呢?
Amanda:我覺得她們滿像我的,算是有正義感的個性,她們對看不慣或者不對的事情,通常會跳出來講話。
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是母女,也是最好的朋友
蘋果西打因甜美可愛的外型,從小擄獲了大批粉絲的心,而如今兩人已成為亭亭玉立的少女,逐漸開始有自己的想法。「整體而言,我覺得她們滿像我的,只要不是在我的保護傘之下,她們出去的話都算很獨立。」Amanda接著與我們分享,蘋果西打自從在學校接觸到鋼琴、舞蹈和跆拳道之後,便主動提及想學習這些才藝,所以不用強迫她們,兩人也會自發地持續學習下去。
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聽到這邊,編輯突然感到好奇,不知道平時母女之間的相處模式是什麼感覺?「一般都是像朋友般相處,不過在原則、家庭教育還有道德這些方面,我會以媽媽的角度提醒。」她指出,蘋果西打剛開始學習跆拳道不久後,偶爾會看到兩人吵架時擺出跆拳道的姿勢,因此她便立下「君子動口不動手」的原則,提醒兩人學跆拳道不是為了打架,藉此端正孩子的行為。
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花嫁:目前是否有積極觀察的對象呢?
Amanda:沒有耶。
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好好愛自己,才能活出自信與美麗
在恢復單身後,Amanda並不急著進入下一段感情,「我覺得現在雖然什麼事情都是要自己來,但後來我發現其實一個人也很好,很多事情我都可以辦得到。」而她明白,世界上沒有十全十美的人,也知道不少人一旦深陷愛情的泥沼中,會很容易看不見對方的缺點,於是選擇包容,讓自己受盡委屈。「我不是這樣,我講話還滿直接的,在感情中我不太會保留。」她爽快地說,「我覺得女生在結婚或生小孩之後的觀念會改變,而且現在的女性比較獨立,也會為自己著想,我覺得這是很好的現象。」人的一生說長不長,說短也不短,Amanda坦言現階段暫時還不想談戀愛,而是想專注於自己與孩子的身上,愉快的過好每一天。
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花嫁:您私下的穿搭風格是?
Amanda:我以前是櫃姐,穿得很「OL」,但隨著年紀增長之後,就會覺得穿得舒服就好了。
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極簡保養,是她的美容秘方
「當櫃姐的時候都是畫大濃妝,粉底液一直抹,而且眼影超厚、眼線超粗,每天卸妝就是一層厚厚的妝下來。」談到美妝,Amanda像是打開了話匣子,興奮地跟我們說自從她離職後,就有一種如釋重負的感覺,「哇可以不用化妝了!」她露出了大笑的表情,並透露日常的妝大多都是簡單地塗隔離霜,有時最多刷上睫毛膏,讓整體看起來有精神一點,除此之外還會固定敷面膜和清粉刺,且零食、油炸類和手搖皆不太碰,令編輯驚呼──簡單,其實不簡單。
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花嫁:您跟孩子近期最熱愛的事情?
Amanda:今年兒童節,我帶蘋果西打去張惠妹在高雄的演唱會,本來她們都沒什麼興趣,但是後來她們被演唱會的氛圍感染,也許之後我們會一起參加更多場的演唱會。
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家庭幸福的關鍵,是把彼此放在心上
孩子的成長稍縱即逝,蘋果西打如今將要升上國中,悄悄地踏入青春期,Amanda笑稱兩個孩子勢必會有自己的生活圈,但即便再忙,節日一定會一起過,是她們家不能缺少的儀式感。「她們接下來要升國中,應該比較沒有機會出去玩了,所以我今年還是會盡可能帶她們好好放鬆,像是去日本浮潛吧!」全心全意,給孩子一個快樂的童年,Amanda只求不留遺憾,竭力成為蘋果西打最堅強的後盾。
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花嫁:最後,請跟我們分享今天拍攝的心得是?
Amanda:很特別的體驗。其實今年兔年,是蘋果西打滿12歲的年度,我們本來就打算要安排一起拍攝紀念的婚紗寫真,剛好收到《花嫁》的專訪邀請,我覺得真的是天時、地利、人和!整個拍攝溝通的過程都很順利,攝影師和化妝師也都很專業,讓我們拍得很舒服愉快。
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